The idea of ??the book revolves around building the ability to endure and move forward after the inevitable sets of life. The book continues the vast emptiness that filled the heart of the Sherrill Sandberg family and made them in the ability to think or even breathe. The book also reviews the concrete steps that people can take to recover the state of recovery and flexibility after the devastating experiences of life. He believes that it is possible that flexibility comes from within us or from external support, even after the most destructive events, the ability to resist grows by finding a deeper meaning and gaining more appreciation in our lives.